Have you ever wondered why God is not speaking to you in a way you expect Him to. You long to hear Him say 'well done, good and faithful servant', and the heavens seem brass. His silence makes you feel like He does not care or He disapproves of you in some way.
The story, in my words, about three women who were kneeling in prayer.
"He answered her not a word." Matt. 15:23
"He will quiet you with His love" Zeph 3:17
He came to the first woman and He bent over in gentleness and love and spoke to her some wonderful sweet words.
He moved on to the second woman and placed his hand on her head and she knew He approved of her.
The third women He just passed on by and did not stop and said not a word.
The woman in her dream felt He must have loved the first lady and the second
greatly, but the third lady must have displeased Him so much He did not even look at her. And she questions the whole scenario and ponders it. Then the answer comes in the following way.
The first woman He bends over and speaks to her in tenderness and kindness as she needed that special touch and love that conveyed to her His tenderness. She needs to feel the touch
of the Master's hand often.
The second woman He touches on the head, she has a stronger faith
and she can be trusted to allow Him reign in her walk of life. She knows He approves of her.
The third woman who seemed to be ignored had a faith and love of the finest quality. She knows Him intimately and trusts Him. She knows He is working in her life that she may serve others and the process by which she walks is in complete trust in the God she serves. She may not understand all things now but needs no explanation and she has the confidence that it is for preparation for service and eternity.
The question today is which woman are you? The one who needs constant watching and assurance each moment of the day,... or the second one who needs to feel His touch and that He is there... or the third woman who completely trusts in her Savior that His all seeing eye is watching over her and ultimately He will work all things for her good because she trusts and loves Him. The assurance that He does all things for her benefit and for His glory.
I think our answer would be that at times we have been each woman at different seasons of our lives and He knows and understands where we are and He is pleased with us because we have answered the call to serve Him. Knowing He loves us and knows our need, it gives us assurance that He does all things well and His attention to us is stated in one of my favorite passages -
Psalm 139: 17-18
'How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God!
How great is the sum of them!
If I should count them, they would be more
in number than the sand;
When I awake, I am still with you.'